THE EXISTENTIAL PLAYBOOK

The Existential Playbook - How to survive, live and thrive

Make your future the best thing that will ever happen to you

Finding meaning, clarity and direction in our lives is challenging. It raises big questions about who we are, what we want and what it takes to survive, live and thrive in today’s world.

The Existential Playbook is your guiding light; a powerful and optimistic companion for when you’re at life’s crossroads, searching for answers about what to do next.

Drawing on decades of rich, real-world experience, distinguished executive coach, economist, lecturer and keynote speaker Stephen Bruyant-Langer artfully and playfully empowers you to navigate transitions in your personal and professional life with grace, resilience and positivity.

Blending practical tools, effective models and real-life case studies with psychological insights and wisdom from the ancient philosophers to cutting-edge modern science and technology, you’ll discover how to shape a better tomorrow for yourself and those around you.

As you progress, you’ll reveal actionable steps that will inspire change, create meaning and lead you to a state of relaxed readiness for whatever your future holds, liberating you to be your true, authentic self and live a fulfilling life.

With insights from experts in philosophy, psychology, neurology and strategy, Stephen leverages his proven 10-step executive coaching system alongside his brand-new Nordic Leadership Model. His powerful approach builds on the existentialist principles of choice, action and responsibility, providing you with a transformative roadmap to successfully edit your past, curate your present and design a future you’ll love.

The Existential Playbook - How to survive, live and thrive

THE EXISTENTIAL PLAYBOOK

Book release video

A video from the book launch event will be available in November 2024

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The content of The Existential Playbook

The Existential Playbook has 9 chapters and an epilogue.

PART ONE – OUR HUMAN CONDITION
1. A New Phase in Life

2. Do you Measure Success the Right Way?

3. What Makes You Thrive?

PART TWO – TRANSFORMATION
4. The Quest for Self

5. Show Me Your Friends

6. The Strategy of Reinvention

PART THREE – GOING FURTHER
7. Navigating the Bigger Perspective

8. How to Thrive at Work

9. Lessons for Transformation

EPILOGUE – TEN EXISTENTIAL HACKS
The ‘fridge door’ version of the book

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Endorsements for The Existential Playbook

Mathias Gredal Norvig – CEO of SYBO Games, creators of Subway Surfers

I thoroughly enjoyed reading this book. It was totally absorbing and fascinating. Eloquent and scholarly, yet still accessible and practical with a lightness of touch – playfulness, even – that allows Stephen’s personality to shine through!

Majken Schultz – chair of the Carlsberg Foundation, professor at the Copenhagen Business School

Our notion of self – our identity – inevitably changes as we move through life. What were aspirations for an ambitious future become bleak memories of the past. In addition, the time horizons of past and future change during life as the choices we make for our future often become more concerned with long-term meaning and fulfilment than the short-term wins in a next career move. The Existential Playbook puts the reader on a trajectory of opportunities for life choices, reflections and personal insight to inspire how to ‘edit the past, curate the present and design the future’. It’s a cross-disciplinary view that draws upon established insights from the fields of philosophy, psychology, neurology and strategy, which are combined in compelling ways. The reader is left with plenty of opportunities for informed reflections that may inspire both small changes and bold moves into the future.

Jeroen de Flander – co-founder and managing director of The Performance Factory

Insightful, surprising and engaging. I wish I’d had this book when I turned 40!

Peter May – former chief HR officer, Deloitte Global and former global chief people officer, Baker McKenzie

This book is essential for anyone seeking to address meaning and purpose in life. Drawing on the very best thinkers, developing powerful models and reflective processes, Bruyant-Langer guides the reader to embrace a deeper sense of self – a real self, an authentic self. It is a must-read for anyone at a crossroads; and who isn’t at a crossroads?

Morten Albaek – philosopher and founder of Voluntas

A thought-provoking book that draws inspiration from thinkers from Kierkegaard to Camus and from Freud to Frankl. It oscillates in a highly reflective manner between the theoretical and practical; intention and action; mind and body; thoughts and feelings; breakdown and breakthrough; survive and thrive; the personal and the universal; and the successful and the meaningful. Food for existential thought!

Richard Leather, chief executive, The Møller Institute, Churchill College, University of Cambridge

In a world defined by constant change and uncertainty, the ability to navigate transitions with grace and resilience has never been more critical. The Existential Playbook is a beacon of wisdom and guidance for those seeking to not only survive but thrive amidst the complexities of life’s ever-evolving journey. Drawing upon a rich tapestry of philosophical insights, psychological principles and real-life ‘hacks’ and tools, Stephen Bruyant-Langer helps the reader form a comprehensive roadmap for embracing change as an opportunity for growth and transformation. Through the book’s pages, readers will discover real-life case studies, anecdotes, practical strategies, profound truths and empowering exercises to navigate the inevitable transitions of life with courage, clarity and confidence. At its core it challenges us to reframe our perspectives on change, viewing it not as a threat to be feared but as a catalyst for personal and professional clarity. It furthermore invites us to lean into discomfort, embrace uncertainty and harness the power of resilience to emerge stronger and more fulfilled on the other side. The Existential Playbook isn’t just a book; it is a guide, toolkit and source for those navigating the turbulent waters of change.

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Britt Meelby Jensen

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CEO, Realdania
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CFO, Intersport Group
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